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The official magazine of Proteus Enterprises P/L proteus edition 4 2025 the invisible leader By Des Penny Finding Space to Reflect By AIMME You’re not an impostor - you’re just Consciously Incompetent By Richard Dore 5 In-demand Leadership Traits of the Future By AIMMEThe Proteuslife Team Editor: Des Penny Production: Leanne Keillor Advertising: Joe Stuart Design: Javier Marmol For all enquiries: 1300 219 903 ABN: 30 092 276 358 proteusleadership.com An Important Message SUBSCRIBE Proteuslife welcomes editorial submissions from a diverse range of people and industries. The information printed is intended to inform and illustrate and should not be taken as professional advice without first checking with appropriate legal or industrial experts. We do not necessarily endorse the views, statements, claims, strategies or ideas put forward by contributors of the magazine. Proteuslife is merely relaying experiences and information. Proteuslife is not liable for any personal or professional loss you may have incurred as a result of reading this magazine. No material may be reproduced in part or whole without written consent from the editor. Advertisements in Proteuslife will be accepted only if they meet all relevant laws and will not give rise to any legal claims or liability and they reflect the culture and purpose of the magazine. proteus The official magazine of Proteus Enterprises P/L John C. Maxwell Remember: Sometimes we win and sometimes we learn. 2 proteuslife 2 proteuslife Subscribe to Proteuslife Magazineeditor's Des Penny Every minute we spend complaining about what's happening is a minute we take away from making things better. Hi everyone, Every minute we spend worrying about what’s wrong is a minute we take away from making things better. Welcome to our final edition of Proteuslife for 2025. This issue is dedicated to the leader who sometimes forgets themselves in the process of leading others. In The Invisible Leader, I explore how easy it is to give everything to everyone else - and quietly run out of fuel. Leadership begins with self-leadership, because we can’t keep giving if we never stop to refill. Richard Dore’s article, You’re Not an Impostor – You’re Just Consciously Incompetent , is a great reminder that growth often feels awkward in the middle - not because we’re impostors, but because we’re learning. And AIMME’s reflections on self-awareness, AI, and wellbeing challenge us to think differently about the future of leadership. Plus, this edition brings some lighter inspiration Justine Schofield’s delicious recipes you’ll want to try at home, and Joe’s Gadgets for Geeks showcasing the latest tools that make life and leadership a little smarter (and a lot more fun). As the year ends, remember: black clouds bring rain. Growth often hides inside the storm - and renewal is always closer than it seems. Please enjoy this edition of Proteuslife. Des Penny - Editor proteusleadership.com/linkedin/des proteusleadership.com/pods/ proteusleadership.com/des-penny-blog Connect with Des! Let's Go - Let's Grow podcast with Des Penny 3 proteuslife10 You’re Not An Impostor - You’re Just Consciously Incompetent By Richard Dore 06 The Invisible Leader By Des Penny 3 Editorial 6 The Invisible Leader By Des Penny 10 You’re Not An Impostor - You’re Just Consciously Incompetent By Richard Dore 14 Finding Space To Reflect By AIMME 16 Conscious Unbossing By AIMME 18 The Complete Leader Certificate Program 20 Ambidextrous Leadership By AIMME 22 Agentic Leadership By AIMME 24 What Our Clients Are Saying contents 5 In-demand Leadership Traits Of The Future By AIMME 26 Conscious Unbossing By AIMME 16 4 proteuslife26 5 In-Demand Leadership Traits Of The Future By AIMME 28 2026 Professional Development Schedule 30 Will AI Take My Job, Or Make Me A Better Leader? By AIMME 32 Innovation Leadership By AIMEE 34 Proteus Events 36 Proteus Leadership Is Expanding To Central Coast - NSW 38 Wellbeing As Strategy By AIMEE 40 Cook Ahead by Justine Schofield 44 Gadgets For Geeks By Joe Stuart 46 Proteus Team 48 Book Review By Richard Dore 50 Black Clouds Bring Rain By Des Penny Ambidextrous Leadership By AIMME 20 5 proteuslifeB efore we can talk about destiny or purpose, we’ve first got to get real about the challenge of looking after ourselves. You see, leadership is one of the greatest privileges a person can experience. We get the opportunity to influence lives, shape cultures and build futures. But here’s the hidden cost that people don’t often talk about… The more you pour into the lives of others, the less you have left for yourself. And slowly, almost without realizing it, we become what I call “ Invisible Leaders” - there for everyone else, but not there for ourselves. Sound familiar? As leaders we are constantly asking: How can I help my team? How can I support people more? How can I solve that problem? How can I keep all the plates spinning? But when was the last time you asked: How am I doing? What do I need? Who’s looking after me? The truth is, leadership can be very lonely. Even in a crowd, even in a busy team, even with all the titles and accolades - it can still be lonely. Because here’s what happens: - People assume you’re strong, so they stop checking in. - They assume you’re sorted, so they stop offering help. - They assume you’ve got it all figured out because you wear the badge of “leader”. But assumptions are dangerous. And often, they leave the leader stranded on an island of expectation, feeling unseen, unsupported, and slowly, overwhelmed. I know this, because I’ve been there – many times. In fact, there have been times in my own leadership where I looked successful on the outside - but inside, I was running on fumes. And it wasn’t because I didn’t love what I was doing. I did and I still do! But it was because I had forgotten the fundamental rule of leadership: The leader must first lead themself. No one can pour from an empty cup. And no one can fulfil their destiny dragging chains of self-neglect behind them. And here’s another big truth: Doubt loves to creep in where self- care checks out. The less you look after yourself, the louder the sound of doubt becomes: “Maybe I’m not good enough.” “Maybe I’ve peaked.” “Maybe it’s too late.” “Maybe it’s all too much.” “Maybe I am no longer relevant.” Ever had those thoughts? Well, you’re not alone! But just because doubt whispers, doesn’t mean you have to listen, or that it is true. Because we - yes YOU and ME - were born for destiny, not defeat. But before we can step forward, we must recognize where we’ve allowed the cracks to form. We must wake up to the reality that no one is coming to save us and that’s not a curse, but a blessing. Why? Because it puts the pen of your life story right back into your own hands. Remember: We are the authors of our own lives - so you write the story you want. By Des Penny This article is an extract from the 6 proteuslifeBecause life doesn’t just happen - we make it happen. And it starts right here, right now, with this simple but powerful realization: No one can look after the leader... except the leader themself. And we are worth looking after. So, today, we stop waiting - Today, we take back the controls and move from doubt to destiny. Will you join me? Now that we’ve recognized the challenge - and understand that no one looks after the leader except the leader themselves - the big question is: How do we do it? How do we shift from doubt to destiny, from just coping to thriving, from feeling invisible to living intentionally? Well, let me share with you six powerful insights that have personally reshaped my leadership - and honestly, my life. These aren’t just theories, they’re truths forged in the trenches, through good and bad times. And if you’ll grab hold of even one of them, you’ll feel the shift start to happen. Insight #1: We Need To Speak Differently Let’s be real, sometimes the first thing that needs changing isn’t your circumstances - it’s your conversation, the way you speak about yourself and others. You see, words aren’t just communication - words are creation. What we say out loud, we start to believe internally. If you’re constantly saying: “I’m tired.” “I’m overwhelmed.” “I’m not good enough.” “It’s not my fault.” Guess what? Your mind, your spirit, even your body, starts to agree with you! It’s called self-fulfilling prophecy, and it’s real. But here’s the power: You can change your prophecy by changing your words. Instead of saying “I’m overwhelmed,” try: “I’m challenged, but I’m growing.” Instead of “I can’t do this,” say: “I’m still learning - and that’s OK.” Instead of “I’m stuck,” declare: “I’m preparing for my next breakthrough.” Instead of saying “I’ve GOT to - say I GET to. So, here is my first challenge for you: When you hear yourself slipping into negative self-talk - catch yourself and stop! Replace it immediately with a word of possibility - say it out loud. It feels awkward at first - but stay with it. Because you are literally speaking your future into existence. Remember: We are the authors of our own lives. So, let’s write a better story. Insight #2: Take Back the Controls Now, when people hear the word “control,” some immediately think, “Oh no, Des, I don’t want to be controlling.” Good! Because that’s not what I’m talking about. I’m talking about self-leadership control - the ability to govern your emotions, your habits, your reactions. Because here’s the deal: If you don’t lead yourself, someone else will, we lead or we are led! Penny he Let’s Go – Let’s Grow podcast 7 proteuslifeYou can’t control every situation - but you can control how you respond by: Controlling your attitude. Increasing your effort. Lifting your standards. And believing in yourself. You know there was a season in my own business where everything that could go wrong, did go wrong. People left unexpectedly. Projects collapsed. Financial pressure mounted. And it would have been easy - so easy - to spiral into blame or bitterness. But I realised something powerful: I couldn’t control the storm, but I could control how I sailed the ship. So, I started each day by literally writing down two things: 1. What I could control today. 2. What could I let go of today because it was out of my control. A simple practice with massive impact. So, my second challenge for you is: Every morning this week, when facing your challenges, write down: “What’s in your control?” “What’s outside of your control?” Then focus only on what’s yours to manage. Let go of the rest - and watch your peace return. Insight #3: It’s OK to Make Mistakes Let’s get something straight: Perfection is a myth. And mistakes aren’t the enemy - fear of mistakes is the enemy! Every great leader, every innovator, every world-changer you admire - they’ve all failed spectacularly at some point. The difference? They got up, dusted themselves off, learned their lessons and went again. One of my favourite sayings - and you’ve probably heard me say this before is: Sometimes you win. Sometimes you learn. And when we understand and adopt this, we never lose! Some of my biggest professional breakthroughs came directly after what looked like my biggest failures. Would I choose those failures again? No. But am I grateful for what they built in me? Absolutely! So, my third challenge for you is: This week, write a list identifying the mistakes you have made that actually taught you something valuable. Then, Reflect. Celebrate the lessons. And move forward proud of your growth. Because you are human but you’re stronger than you think - and you’ve survived 100% of your worst days so far! Insight #4: Deal with Personal Attacks Appropriately If you’re growing, you’re going to ruffle feathers. If you’re stretching, you’re going to face criticism. It’s not personal - but it is predictable! People criticize what they don’t understand and attack what makes them feel uncomfortable about their own inaction. But here’s your leadership superpower: Learn to filter the feedback. Ask two simple questions: 1. Is this criticism valid? If yes - be humble, make adjustments, and thank them. 2. Is this criticism toxic or unfounded? If yes - thank them, put it in the bin, and move on! So, my fourth challenge for you is: Next time criticism comes your way, take a deep breath. Don’t react, instead, reflect and respond, but never let someone else’s opinion detour you from your destiny and from what is right. Remember: Brave leaders will always be criticized. Weak leaders will always criticize. Insight #5: Life and Leadership is More Than Just Coping Listen carefully to this: You were not designed to merely survive. You were built to thrive. And thriving isn’t about achieving some mythical “perfect balance” - it’s about finding your sources of renewal and joy and prioritizing them like your life depends on it... because it does. Say YES to opportunities that stretch you. Say NO to things that drain you without purpose. Schedule fun into your calendar. When is the last time you really laughed out loud, like a real belly laugh? When’s the last time you did something just for the sheer joy of it? If you can’t remember, that’s your next challenge. This week, book something ‘life-lifting’ into your calendar. It could be: - A dinner with friends. - A hike in nature. - An afternoon off just to recharge. And don’t apologise for it. Prioritise joy. Protect your energy. Preserve your passion. Insight #6: Find a Mentor Let me say this with all the energy I can muster: You do not have to do leadership alone. Find someone who’s a few steps ahead. Someone who will listen without judgment. Someone who will stretch your thinking and cheer for your success. Years ago, I had a mentor who, at a critical time in my career, said just three words that changed my life: “Des - back yourself more.” That simple encouragement gave me the courage to take the next big leap - and it’s why I’m here today. So, here is my final challenge for you: Before the end of this month, identify one person you respect - and simply ask: “Would you be willing to mentor me, even informally?” Most will say yes. And if they don’t? No drama - it just means there’s someone even better for you. But you have to go looking! Every single day, whether you realise it or not, you are standing at a crossroads that demands you make choices. One road is the path of doubt: Doubting your ability. Doubting your impact. Doubting your worth. Listening and reacting to criticism. Believing the lies that say “it’s too late,” “you’re not enough,” “who do you think you are?” The other road is the path of destiny: Believing you were born for impact and to make a difference. Trusting that even if you don’t have it all figured out, action will precede clarity. Knowing that your story, your leadership, your life - they matter - to you and to others. So, which road will you choose? Because here’s a leadership truth: Doubt will always be easier, but destiny will always be worth it. 8 proteuslifeIf you're looking for a podcast that will help you become a better leader and grow your business, we highly recommend Let's Go - Let's Grow with Des Penny. So, why not give them a listen today and subscribe by clicking on the QR Code above? Last podcast: Why do I feel invisible? Subscribe now Des Penny Co-CEO - Founder / Director Sales / Marketing / Events Proteus Leadership So, Why Does This Matter NOW More Than Ever? Because we are living in a world that desperately needs leaders of hope, resilience, innovation, and courage. People are craving authenticity. They’re craving leaders who don’t just survive - but thrive. Leaders who don’t just talk about growth - but embody it. Leaders who don’t just cope - but create new ways forward. The greatest leadership challenge you will ever face is not out there - it’s inside of you. It’s the daily decisions to: - Speak differently even when negativity feels easier. - Take back the controls when life feels chaotic. - See mistakes as stepping stones instead of shame. - Handle criticism with wisdom instead of woundedness. - Refuse to just cope - but instead choose to create. - Surround yourself with people who lift you UP, not drag you down. Because destiny isn’t a lightning bolt moment. Destiny is a series of DAILY DECISIONS. Tiny, courageous, invisible-to-most, decisions that add up to a life of massive impact. Remember, Leadership Isn’t About Perfection - It’s About Progress! So, let’s settle this once and for all: You don’t have to have it all figured out to start. You don’t have to feel confident every second of the journey. You don’t have to be fearless - you just have to fear less. Remember, action precedes clarity. You move, and then the path becomes clear. Don’t wait until you feel ready. You’ll be waiting forever. Instead - take the next small, brave step immediately. Because: Life doesn’t just happen - we make it happen, and we were not meant to be invisible! Des Penny Co-CEO - Founder / Director Sales / Marketing / Events Proteus Leadership 9 proteuslifeNext >